by Eric
September 15, 2009 in Funny, GLBT, Movies, tv/series by Eric
I wish I were gayer so my rants could be this funny! Maybe my gold star gets in the way.
I am getting increasingly outraged by the appearances of the Gayngels on TV and especially in film. If this trend continues, hopefully they will bring Paul Lynde back from the dead. Uncle Arthur will save us all!
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by Eric
June 12, 2009 in Featured, GLBT, Headline, Music by Eric
WTF Gene, I mean WTF! In another spot:
Adam should have won. On the other hand he should have kept his mouth shut about his sexual preferences. I don’t really care what he wants to do and neither does America. But this kid’s got talent, Adam Lambert can go on. As long as he’s quiet about whatever else he prefers to do indoors. I personally don’t care, I mean if you love farm animals, that’s fine, but I don’t wanna read a magazine about that (AfterElton).
I am a huge Kiss fan. My sister became a fan when Rock and Roll over came out, and I grew up with their music. It has been the sound track of my life. I own all their albums, most of their DVDs and have seen them in concert a couple times. When I was 16, my sister took me to see Kiss as my first concert.
Now, I have to admit that I have never been the biggest fan of Gene Simmons. He has suffered from foot in mouth disease for decades, and he has one of those personalities that has always made me roll my eyes.
This is blatant hypocrisy! Gene’s entire career is based around him talking about his sexuality, sexual preferences, and sexual activity. Gene is the man who said, “If it’s not about sex, its not rock and roll.” How dare he of all people say that anyone should shut up about their sexuality!
Adam has talent.
I don’t think this quote is necessarily homophobic. Gene is first and foremost a business man. I assume that he looks at Adam’s decision to come out as one that will hurt his ability to sell records.
As someone who has made a career off singing about his love of women, I can understand that. Personally, I would love a gay rock star who isn’t afraid of wither his sexuality or an electric guitar.
Boo Gene. At least Paul Stanley is the one who is doing the majority of the work on the new Kiss album.
by Eric
April 21, 2009 in Featured, GLBT, Headline, tv/series by Eric
I want to start by saying that not all of the reaction to the news of an openly gay character on Stargate Universe has been negative. Many fans of the series have stood up to the bigotry that is spiraling around the internet. It is not necessary to respond to positive statements, but it is incumbent on me to respond to the negative ones.
I have decided to use comments from Scifi Wire because they have be responcible enough to remove the most vile, incendiary, and hateful comments from their site. These are some of the mild ones that remain.
Homophobia is the hatred, fear, stereotyping of gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and the transgendered. “Homophobia is just another form of sexism. For most people, their problem with GLBT people is that we do not fit nicely into the culturally acceptable gender roles assigned to us (Where is the Diversity in IDIC?).”
There are five main flavors of Homophobia exhibited in the comments:
Creno demonstrates this problem well:
Woot! Hot lesbo action FTW! Let’s see them make out. Make it happen guys (Scifi Wire).
The equation of a lesbian character with a perverse, masturbatory fantasy is a huge problem in our society. The notion that we are reducing a human down to nothing more than an object of puerile desire is repugnant!
The biggest problem with this comment is that they wanting their own ego stroked, and if the character were heterosexual, they would still be calling for meaningless sex for their own titilation.
Hopefully, the writers of the series will treat the character with more respect, and not succumb to the base lusts that would cheapen the series and rob it of the moral character the franchise has exhibted up to now.
Women are people and deserve respect regardless of their sexual orientation!
Zaphod said:
I wonder why shows never announce characters who are “openly black” or “openly hispanic” or “openly heterosexual (Scifi Wire)?”
Most of the characters on Stargate (and all series) are assumed to be heterosexual.
Starting in the 1960’s, many characters were “openly black” or “openly hispanic” for the first time and were announced as such. For decades, shows have incorporated characters dealing with racism or what it means to be an ethnic minority in society. While there have not been enough, they do exist.
Among the actors I have met, one of the most common complaints I hear is that their are not enough “Openly Female” or “Openly Asian” characters for them to play.
We need more honest portrayals of minority characters on Television and film, not less.
Someone claiming to be Warwick Sabin said:
Geez. Just change the name to “Stargay Universe” and be done with it.
The best would be if the other gay character was male and the two of them are the only ones on the show without anyone to hook up with.
Why not introduce an asexual character or someone who is a chronic masturbator (Scifi Wire)?
Really, Stargay Universe is the only thing you could think of to say?
First of all, it would be just as likely that the heterosexual characters would find themselves dealing with loneliness in a galaxy far, far away as it would for the homosexual characters.
Personally, I hope they treat the character with the same respect as they do the other characters. The franchise has never been about sex, but relationships have always played an important part.
The real Warwick Sabin contacted me disgusted about this comment:
Someone used my name to post the idiotic comment you quoted in your blog post.
I am very distressed about this, because the comment is disgusting and is the polar opposite of anything I would ever think or express.
It is lower than low that someone would attack another’s honor and good name to say such vile things.
Chris Shea said:
i personally dont wants gays in my shows but i dont want straight people either
i want peopel doign there job saving the world killing aliens helping people
cmon in 10 years of sg-1 there was barely any love stuff
they implied it and it was enought (Scifi Wire)
I bet none of the people upset about a lesbian on the show were upset about them flaunting Jack, Daniel, Carter, and Teal’c flaunting their sexuality, all of which played into the story.
I haven’t even finished with the major characters in SG-1, not to mention Atlantis. There was a lot of love stories in SG-1 and Atlantis. If one of the characters is gay, I can’t imagine it being any different.
Facepalm chose to attack the Mentally Challenged!
If nothing else sells your show, then bring in the lesbians.
I wonder when the Stargate Universe will introduce the first openly retarded character? Part of the Stargate initiative for the better integration of the mentally challenged into the work force, this openly dumb person will be in charge major decision throughout the entirety of the series.
Executive producer Brad Wright pointed out: “We no longer only depict villains, played by black actors in alien rubber costumes, as mentally deficient, we want to raise awareness for general stupidity anywhere. Our team of highly skilled writers is looking forward to the groundbreaking shift of paradigms a retard will bring to the show (Scifi Wire).”
My neice has Down’s Syndrome. Personally, I would love to see Stargate or any series feature a reallistic portrayal on someone like her. Anything that would make a good story should be considered.
It means we have a lot of work to do. Science Ficition is a genre that is suppose to be about IDIC: Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combination, progress, and Making a better world. The mere fact that people with such bigoted opinions can call themselves fans means that the writers have not been doing their job.
It is time to shake things up!
by Eric
April 21, 2009 in Featured, GLBT, Headline, tv/series by Eric
Stargate Universe potentially goes where no American Scifi show has gone before:
“There are at least one and potentially more gay characters on Universe,” Cooper said in answer to a fan’s question.
Wright added, “There’s actually two (GateWorld).”
In the seventh episode, we will meet Camille Wray’s (Ming-Na) long-time partner Sharon.
If this episode airs as planned, then this will be the first time an openly gay character will appear on a major Scifi show.
The Producers of Stargate Atlantis conceived of several characters as Gay, but that was never revealed to the audience on the show.
Battlestar Gallactica used its webseries to insert a gay character, but that was not incorporated in to the main series.
Knight Rider’s producers neutered their lesbian character after the pilot.
I assume that Vincent on Eureka is gay, though I only have hints to go on.
I am concerned that this choice means that Camille Wray may be fated to die in season 1.
Why? It is standard practice in Speculative Fiction movies and television to introduce a gay character, and then kill them. Remember Willow and Tara from Buffy the Vampire Slayer?
Hopefully, Camille Wray will be a fully realized character in the series and not the product of an over active male fantasy. Only time will tell.
This is a bold move for Stargate Universe, and I hope they announce or better reveal on the show who the other gay character on the series is. It is about time for the GLBT community to see themselves represented in Scifi.
I have high hopes that Brad Wright and his team will do a good job with incorporating a gay character into the series. I am a huge fan of SG-1 and Atlantis. I am more worried that the Syfy network will mess it up.
by Eric
April 7, 2009 in Convention, Fandom, Featured, GLBT, Headline by Eric
Within fandom, as with the mainstream culture, assimilation into an ‘acceptable person’ is not a way to be safe.
For years I have participated in the panels and sundry other discussions about whether GLBT fans should blend into the background, or whether we should be more vocal, and make our presence known and felt. It was a struggle at first, but eventually we came to believe the price of silence too high for us to pay.
In other words, those who were naturally straight-acting, were encouraged not to change their persona at fan events, and those of us who were a bit more obvious in our sexual orientation and gender identity were encouraged to be ourselves. The only exception we stressed was for cosplay (dressing in costume and pretending you are what you are dressed as).
While we always used common sense, we found it was best to be open and upfront about our orientation and identity. The vast majority of negative experiences I have had at fan events were when someone found out I am gay, and felt like I had hidden it from them.
I am more inappropriate and direct with people then the average person, and will often introduce myself: “Hello, I am Eric, and I am a gay man, may I presume you are heterosexual.”
It usually gets a laugh, and will often open the door for people to understand the awkward position GLBT people are placed in by society. If we are not open about our identity or orientation, it is assumed we were hiding it.
You don’t have to be as upfront as I am, but be careful not to lead people into believing you are covering it up. This self-serving sense of betrayal is often used as a thin veil to excuse a person’s homophobia. “Well, I just don’t know who you are anymore.” Whoever you are, always be yourself, be open, and be honest.
Last year, our first klingon drag queen attended Shore Leave. She was stunning and took the time to make each piece of the costume by hand to express her gender identity and passion for klingons. Unfortunately, she also experienced an inordinate amount of sneers and cat calls as she went through the convention.
Our group also features a number of male-to-female transgenders who often come in costume. They have not faced some of the same hurdles the rest of the community have. When I talked to one who asked to remain anonymous, she told me that her biggest problem at the conventions were that people assumed she merely wore a costume.
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by Eric
April 2, 2009 in GLBT, Music, Steampunk by Eric
Captain Robert from Abney Park is a little defensive in his latest post about disruptive behavior during rehearsal. His language is a little gruff:
A little Whiskey or a little rum…okay, A LOT if Whiskey…and they are all over each other. In front of the rest of the band, in front of fans, in front of my kids.
It started as ass grabbing, arms around each others shoulder, dancing, pretending it was a joke…but as the months went on it turned into more. Mooney eyes, pretend kisses leading into real kisses, leading into full on tongue swapping! IN THE MIDDLE OF FUCKING SONGS! And the worst thing is, when they do it, their guitars rub together, and that messes up there playing, and then we got to start the songs all over again (Captain Robert)!
I don’t know Robert personally, though I wish I did. It would be easier to wrap my head around this.
I know many of these people, and in fact I have been married to one for 12 years.
I am a little concerned that Robert could be labeled as homophobic for his rant. Honestly, it doesn’t take much these days to earn the label. I have even been accused of Homophobia, and I am gay!
From reading his blog, listening to his music, and watching his videos, I tend to believe Robert is a dedicated and passionate about the future of Abney Park, and anything he sees as a threat to that would engender his rage.
His band mates not focusing on rehearsal is just the sort of thing I can see him flying off the handle about.
I wish Robert would have left his children out of this.
I have mixed feelings about the effect on children of seeing grown people making out, but invoking the kids doesn’t help his argument.
Personally, I would rather my kids (if I had any) see a public display of affection than to see me (I don’t know if Robert was drinking or not) and my friends imbibing copious amounts of whiskey and rum. I wish the kids had not been mentioned.
I really wish we had the other side of the story. The nature of Robert’s actions will be under a cloud of suspicion until we know the opinions of the other people in the room.
I hope Robert is right that this is not homophobia, but honestly, we cannot know one way or the other until we hear from the others.
by Eric
April 2, 2009 in Fandom, Featured, GLBT by Eric
My personal experience in fandom is a mixed one. I was raised in a conservative, Baptist home. When I was ten, I realized I was gay. I hated myself, and never felt like I fit in anywhere, until I attended my first convention.
I was a geek in school, and we hadn’t lived in Maryland for every long. One day, my friend Suzie invited me to go to a convention with her.
It wasn’t easy. My mother wasn’t keen on me going out for a day trip to a convention north of Baltimore with people she didn’t know very well. I begged and pleaded, and though I don’t remember them, I am sure I threw in some hissy fits and tantrums just to get the point across.
When we arrived, I felt like I entered the promised land. Thousands of people who all loved the same things I did. I didn’t have to lie about anything.
For the first time, I felt like I found a place I belonged. If you have never been to a convention or participated in a fan club, they are amazing things. At a convention, you know that you are a de facto friend with most of the people there. Our mutual love for the same franchises, movies, and books ties us together in a way that is hard to explain. I have made connections with people that have lasted for years.
My convention friends were the first people to know that I was gay. I was open and honest. Something about being surrounded by so many like minded people empowered me.
I was very lucky. I never faced or felt any kind of discrimination at the conventions until many years later. When I first entered fandom, IDIC was not a slogan or piece of jewelry. It was a philosophy people took to heart.
Conventions are some of the few places that we can be ourselves… or are they?
It depends from convention to convention, but in general, speculative fiction fans are more open minded then the general population, except in periods of mass popularity for speculative fiction, or when a convention slips into the mainstream.
Popularity often brings more closed-minded people into fandom because they liked the special effects in movie x and have not been exposed to the ethos of open-mindedness which usually pervades fandom.
For me, conventions were a sanctuary from the homophobic world, until I started writing.
by Eric
March 31, 2009 in Fandom, Featured, GLBT, Headline by Eric
Fandom is a beautiful thing. Fandom is nothing more and nothing less than people gathering in common cause to say, “We love this!” It is a common bond bringing together people from disparate groups that would ordinarily never mix and mingle. Through movie attendance, book clubs, fan clubs, conventions, and online networks, we join in unanimous praise and critique of the objects of our love. The stories, characters, and settings we love tie us together, and give us shared stories through which we relate to each other.
What happens when certain voices of the community are not represented in those stories, characters, and settings? How do these people make their voices heard. We unite with our friends and allies to hi-light the problems and seek to bring these lost voices out of the community and into the very things we love.
Gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, and gender identity are only a handful of the communities struggling for representation within Speculative Fiction and fandom. Over the years, I have been delegated the responsibility for dealing with issues of sexual orientation and gender identity by a couple conventions in Maryland. The problems are deep, the solutions are imaginative, and our progress has been impressive.
Roles for women, ethnic minorities, and homosexuals are not only under represented, but they are often included either as stereotypes or as the character who will be killed at some point in the story.
The Jon Stewart Green Lantern movie couldn’t get green lit, but the Hal Jordon Green Lantern did. Even in the Transformers, the black Autobot died.
It is time for more more minorities to take on leading roles without having to pander to a white, heterosexual, male audience.
It is not the most widely held opinion, but I have argued for years that Homophobia is just another form of sexism. For most people, their problem with GLBT people is that we do not fit nicely into the culturally acceptable gender roles assigned to us. The solution to this is not to conform to these gender roles, or to defy them. What we need to do is be ourselves.
In this series, I will be discussing my experiences as a gay man in fandom and SF.
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by Eric
December 17, 2008 in GLBT, Politics, tv/series by Eric
Our Rachel Maddow has been named as one of the people who is “Shaping the News” by Vogue Magazine in their January issue.
Her style of political discourse is a break from the shouting, point-counterpoint approach that dominates cable news, instead emphasizing her relentlessly cheerful, conscientiously concise opinions. “I’m trying to get people to agree with me,” she says. “I am trying to say, ‘Here’s how I see the world.’ Not everybody’s going to agree with me. But I think that I make sense, and I would like you to think that I make sense, too, because I think that we can make sense of this world together, you and me, if” — and here she shifts into a fake TV announcer’s voice — “you’ll just follow along (New Now Next)!”
I love Rachel, and have listened to her for years on Air America. I can only hope she is changing the face of news. It needs all the help it can get, and she is one of the few shining lights on TV.
Congrats Rachel.
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